In our contemporary society divorce is no longer a scarce word as a good
number of marriages these days hardly last without one party or the
other contemplating getting a divorce.
If you ask for my view, the too many divorce cases we have today, as
well as heartbreak, is consequent on the sad fact that many people
often try to 'manage' their partner either for pity, necessity or want
of money. There could be other factors, hence this post tries to
highlight the kind of girl you should not date or marry. (Female version
coming soon). So guys, if you are ready, let's go.
1. The liars.
I've once been in a relationship with a lady I knew was a perpetual liar. My view was that with time I could change her into an honest lady but I was wrong. No one likes to be lied to. So if you try to manage a lady who doesn't mind telling you she was just coming from a 'chemistry rehearsal' probably because she doesn't know how to tell you she went to see another man then I can assure you that you will soon get tired of her.
I've once been in a relationship with a lady I knew was a perpetual liar. My view was that with time I could change her into an honest lady but I was wrong. No one likes to be lied to. So if you try to manage a lady who doesn't mind telling you she was just coming from a 'chemistry rehearsal' probably because she doesn't know how to tell you she went to see another man then I can assure you that you will soon get tired of her.
2. The Rule Makers.
Have you ever wooed a girl and she told you that she will be interested in the relationship only if you will agree to some certain rules? Some of such rules may include 'no sex until wedding night, no frequent visitation, blah blah blah.....' I just have one problem with this. That's nothing more than the fact that such people will certainly bore you one day because they will keep making rules for you.
Even if there will not be sex in the relationship or frequent visits, I feel it's rude to say that to a man. But it's best to be told before hopping in. So as a man you have a duty to decide if you will be comfortable with that or not.
Have you ever wooed a girl and she told you that she will be interested in the relationship only if you will agree to some certain rules? Some of such rules may include 'no sex until wedding night, no frequent visitation, blah blah blah.....' I just have one problem with this. That's nothing more than the fact that such people will certainly bore you one day because they will keep making rules for you.
Even if there will not be sex in the relationship or frequent visits, I feel it's rude to say that to a man. But it's best to be told before hopping in. So as a man you have a duty to decide if you will be comfortable with that or not.
3. The Hard Girls.
Seriously you may be wasting your time trying to build your own philosophy into some ladies. If before asking a girl out you have noticed she relies on her own decisions and would hardly take advice from no one, going into a relationship with such in the belief that she will change with time is a great risk, though that may be the case.
Seriously you may be wasting your time trying to build your own philosophy into some ladies. If before asking a girl out you have noticed she relies on her own decisions and would hardly take advice from no one, going into a relationship with such in the belief that she will change with time is a great risk, though that may be the case.
4. The Sadists.
Trust me, not every man can stand the troubles that come with dating a sadist. You will hardly please them because you will need plenty of time to understand them and what makes them happy. For example, while every lady would normally cherish gifts, a sadist may say you are stalking her with your too much gifts. Lol.
Trust me, not every man can stand the troubles that come with dating a sadist. You will hardly please them because you will need plenty of time to understand them and what makes them happy. For example, while every lady would normally cherish gifts, a sadist may say you are stalking her with your too much gifts. Lol.
5. The 'Don't Explain' Ladies.
I personally have problems with these kind of ladies. When you do or say something that got them angry and then try to explain yourself they will simply walk out and won't listen to reasons. For me, these kind of ladies will easily walk out of a relationship or marriage and leave your heart in shambles .
I personally have problems with these kind of ladies. When you do or say something that got them angry and then try to explain yourself they will simply walk out and won't listen to reasons. For me, these kind of ladies will easily walk out of a relationship or marriage and leave your heart in shambles .
6. The Double Daters.
Sometimes you may love a lady so much that you will be willing to share her with other men provided she will be giving you some attention too and in the belief that she will soon be yours alone. Well this is a false feeling. You should only permit that if your sole aim is to flirt with the lady and dump her. But if you are in for true love, it should be either you alone or never.
Funny enough, some ladies may have the nerve to tell you they can't date only you because you alone can't meet all their needs. In such situation don't try to force yourself into her queue, just let it go.
Sometimes you may love a lady so much that you will be willing to share her with other men provided she will be giving you some attention too and in the belief that she will soon be yours alone. Well this is a false feeling. You should only permit that if your sole aim is to flirt with the lady and dump her. But if you are in for true love, it should be either you alone or never.
Funny enough, some ladies may have the nerve to tell you they can't date only you because you alone can't meet all their needs. In such situation don't try to force yourself into her queue, just let it go.
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