Ladies 4 Ways To Make Your Man Want To Marry You

When it feels right, and you are certain that this man can guarantee you a secure future of love and attention, then its worth it to know ways to make him make up his mind quickly.

(1) Make him feel in charge; men have a big ego, even if you earn a bit higher than this man at the moment-make him feel he is in charge... we all know the ladies run the show dont we?

2) Listen to your man; A man wants you to listen to his soul, to know and understand how deeply and fondly he is of you- a man wants to know you are loyal, and believe me men always read between the lines... you don't want the man to see you as a nagging wife,so take note of the complaints.

(3) Be stable strong,but show your man you need him; this is like a dose of adrenalin rush for a man when you show him you need him emotionally.

(4) Keep yourself sexy and looking sweet; you do not have to be a super model or Nolly-wood actress but always keep yourself clean,looking soft and always be a lady...most men don't like women who act masculine, wear your victoria secrets,smile sweet and always smile.

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4 Sign That’ll Tell You He’s Not Looking For A Serious Relationship

The bad boy tamed by the right girl has long been a cliché in movies and on TV. From Joey from Friends to Barney in How I Met Your Mother, the promiscuous man who prefers commitment-free hook-ups is shown to be perfectly willing to change his philandering ways once he realizes how unfulfilled he is. In reality, there are plenty of men out there who simply don’t want a serious relationship or don’t want one with you. If you’re looking for a serious relationship, it’s important to be able to tell the difference between a relationship with potential, and one that’s unlikely to develop into anything more. Here are four tell-tale phrases that suggest he won’t be changing his ways any time soon.

#1. “I think it’s too soon for you to meet my family” If a guy is serious about you, he’ll want you to meet his family as soon as possible. He might be nervous about the meeting, because he wants it to go well, but he won’t fob you off with excuses any time you suggest seeing them.

#2. “I don’t think you’d like my friends” If it seems that he really doesn’t want you to meet his friends, it suggests that they either don’t know you exist, or that he has given them a very different impression of what kind of relationship you have. Either way, it’s not a good sign for the future of your relationship.

#3. “I’m not looking for anything serious” Perhaps the old cliché of bad boy tamed is to blame, but many women don’t believe what they hear when a man says he’s not looking for a serious relationship. They make the classic mistake of thinking that things will change when he realizes just how much they mean to him, and hanging on in the hope that he will eventually fall head-over-heels in love.

If you met using online dating, it should be clear whether he is after something serious or not. Most men won’t lie about what they are looking for. So if he says “I’m not looking for anything serious” he means just that. Take it as a clear sign and don’t waste any more time with him.

#4. “Let’s just be spontaneous” While being spontaneous can be very exciting and romantic, it’s not a good sign if he doesn’t ever want to make solid plans with you. If he’s developing serious feelings for you, he’ll want to make as many plans as possible so he always knows when he’ll be seeing you next. If he’s seeing a few other girls, he might be waiting to see what other offers he gets before committing to anything. This ‘spontaneity’ could also be another way of saying ‘let’s just hook up whenever I feel like it.

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5 Types Of Guys That Are Easily Used By Ladies

Sometimes, your personality, desires, attitude or character can be the very reason why you find yourself easily used and manipulated by women. If you find yourself in any of the categories below, it would be wise enough for you now to dust your ass and retrace your steps!!! Below are some types of guys that are easily manipulated by women: 

1) #The Se.x Freak#: Se.x is surely, one formidable tool that women have been using to manipulated men by constantly draining them both financially and emotionally from time immemorial!!! If you are sex freak, you would do anything she requests for in order not to lose the opportunity to have access to regular se.x! In the long run, you might find yourself spending more than half of your monthly income on her! Being able to control your sexual desires can greatly help you in avoiding the situation of you being a slave to babes!!! 

2) #The Love-starved Guy#: I know guys who go about looking for love as if it was their destiny  Though, it’s not bad to search for love but when you show too much obsession for it, you could be easily used by ladies. Why would you beg a babe to date you?  Promising her that you would take care of her or do anything for her? You must be a 21st century mugu!!! When you do this, you have laid yourself on the ground to be trampled on and used in the long run!!!

3) #The Emotionally-weak Guy#: Emotionally weak guys are easily used by women. Such guys tend to exhibit attitudes such as desparation, inexperience and romantic foolishness! They can’t say ‘No’ to a lady’s demand at all times…I call them ‘Yes Men’ It is this type of guy that will continue to call a babe up to 78 times, knowing fully well that she doesn’t want to pick his call . He can easily change his important plans just to please a woman who doesn’t even have an atom of love for him. He can starve himself for a babe just to provide her those expensive goodies she has requested for!

4) #The Show Guy#: You wan show yourself abi?  Your last money on earth is 5k…you don’t know where and when the next money will come yet you would still go ahead to take her to an expensive eatery in order to show her that you can provide her needs. This is where you end up spending almost all the money; if she tells you that she needs this and that and you discover that the bill would take almost all the cash, it would be advisable to tell her the plain fact! Emotionally strong dudes are not afraid to say the facts confidently but emotionally weak dudes are!!! If this is the case, you can be easily used by the babe because she would easily notice this. Nor worry, the owu wey go blow you still dey do road walk! 

5)#Struggling Guys That Have Taste For Beautiful Women#: This category of guys are very prone to being used and manipulated by ladies. I once opened a thread on struggling guys. If you are a struggling guy with a low income, please face your front! In other words, face the most important things in your life and stop drooling over beautiful babes abeg! These girls will only end up using you when they become aware that you don’t have the wherewithal or resources to live up to their expectations. Heart-break and emotional trauma are the end-resuls! Imagine the situation…you are struggling and she’s so pretty and hot with so many men wanting her with their numerous offers! What do you expect to get if not being used? You nor get money but you wan chop Owerri soup! . I fear you o!

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