Ladies 4 Ways To Make Your Man Want To Marry You

When it feels right, and you are certain that this man can guarantee you a secure future of love and attention, then its worth it to know ways to make him make up his mind quickly.

(1) Make him feel in charge; men have a big ego, even if you earn a bit higher than this man at the moment-make him feel he is in charge... we all know the ladies run the show dont we?

2) Listen to your man; A man wants you to listen to his soul, to know and understand how deeply and fondly he is of you- a man wants to know you are loyal, and believe me men always read between the lines... you don't want the man to see you as a nagging wife,so take note of the complaints.

(3) Be stable strong,but show your man you need him; this is like a dose of adrenalin rush for a man when you show him you need him emotionally.

(4) Keep yourself sexy and looking sweet; you do not have to be a super model or Nolly-wood actress but always keep yourself clean,looking soft and always be a lady...most men don't like women who act masculine, wear your victoria secrets,smile sweet and always smile.

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4 Sign That’ll Tell You He’s Not Looking For A Serious Relationship

The bad boy tamed by the right girl has long been a cliché in movies and on TV. From Joey from Friends to Barney in How I Met Your Mother, the promiscuous man who prefers commitment-free hook-ups is shown to be perfectly willing to change his philandering ways once he realizes how unfulfilled he is. In reality, there are plenty of men out there who simply don’t want a serious relationship or don’t want one with you. If you’re looking for a serious relationship, it’s important to be able to tell the difference between a relationship with potential, and one that’s unlikely to develop into anything more. Here are four tell-tale phrases that suggest he won’t be changing his ways any time soon.

#1. “I think it’s too soon for you to meet my family” If a guy is serious about you, he’ll want you to meet his family as soon as possible. He might be nervous about the meeting, because he wants it to go well, but he won’t fob you off with excuses any time you suggest seeing them.

#2. “I don’t think you’d like my friends” If it seems that he really doesn’t want you to meet his friends, it suggests that they either don’t know you exist, or that he has given them a very different impression of what kind of relationship you have. Either way, it’s not a good sign for the future of your relationship.

#3. “I’m not looking for anything serious” Perhaps the old cliché of bad boy tamed is to blame, but many women don’t believe what they hear when a man says he’s not looking for a serious relationship. They make the classic mistake of thinking that things will change when he realizes just how much they mean to him, and hanging on in the hope that he will eventually fall head-over-heels in love.

If you met using online dating, it should be clear whether he is after something serious or not. Most men won’t lie about what they are looking for. So if he says “I’m not looking for anything serious” he means just that. Take it as a clear sign and don’t waste any more time with him.

#4. “Let’s just be spontaneous” While being spontaneous can be very exciting and romantic, it’s not a good sign if he doesn’t ever want to make solid plans with you. If he’s developing serious feelings for you, he’ll want to make as many plans as possible so he always knows when he’ll be seeing you next. If he’s seeing a few other girls, he might be waiting to see what other offers he gets before committing to anything. This ‘spontaneity’ could also be another way of saying ‘let’s just hook up whenever I feel like it.

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5 Types Of Guys That Are Easily Used By Ladies

Sometimes, your personality, desires, attitude or character can be the very reason why you find yourself easily used and manipulated by women. If you find yourself in any of the categories below, it would be wise enough for you now to dust your ass and retrace your steps!!! Below are some types of guys that are easily manipulated by women: 

1) #The Se.x Freak#: Se.x is surely, one formidable tool that women have been using to manipulated men by constantly draining them both financially and emotionally from time immemorial!!! If you are sex freak, you would do anything she requests for in order not to lose the opportunity to have access to regular se.x! In the long run, you might find yourself spending more than half of your monthly income on her! Being able to control your sexual desires can greatly help you in avoiding the situation of you being a slave to babes!!! 

2) #The Love-starved Guy#: I know guys who go about looking for love as if it was their destiny  Though, it’s not bad to search for love but when you show too much obsession for it, you could be easily used by ladies. Why would you beg a babe to date you?  Promising her that you would take care of her or do anything for her? You must be a 21st century mugu!!! When you do this, you have laid yourself on the ground to be trampled on and used in the long run!!!

3) #The Emotionally-weak Guy#: Emotionally weak guys are easily used by women. Such guys tend to exhibit attitudes such as desparation, inexperience and romantic foolishness! They can’t say ‘No’ to a lady’s demand at all times…I call them ‘Yes Men’ It is this type of guy that will continue to call a babe up to 78 times, knowing fully well that she doesn’t want to pick his call . He can easily change his important plans just to please a woman who doesn’t even have an atom of love for him. He can starve himself for a babe just to provide her those expensive goodies she has requested for!

4) #The Show Guy#: You wan show yourself abi?  Your last money on earth is 5k…you don’t know where and when the next money will come yet you would still go ahead to take her to an expensive eatery in order to show her that you can provide her needs. This is where you end up spending almost all the money; if she tells you that she needs this and that and you discover that the bill would take almost all the cash, it would be advisable to tell her the plain fact! Emotionally strong dudes are not afraid to say the facts confidently but emotionally weak dudes are!!! If this is the case, you can be easily used by the babe because she would easily notice this. Nor worry, the owu wey go blow you still dey do road walk! 

5)#Struggling Guys That Have Taste For Beautiful Women#: This category of guys are very prone to being used and manipulated by ladies. I once opened a thread on struggling guys. If you are a struggling guy with a low income, please face your front! In other words, face the most important things in your life and stop drooling over beautiful babes abeg! These girls will only end up using you when they become aware that you don’t have the wherewithal or resources to live up to their expectations. Heart-break and emotional trauma are the end-resuls! Imagine the situation…you are struggling and she’s so pretty and hot with so many men wanting her with their numerous offers! What do you expect to get if not being used? You nor get money but you wan chop Owerri soup! . I fear you o!

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PLEASE HELP ME- My Husband is Starving me of $ex, PLS I NEED YOUR ADVISE ?

My hubby has been denying me $ex.

From when we started dating till when we had our first child to after our wedding, our $ex life was wow! He never gave me breathing space and I enjoyed it. Not long after our wedding I took in but lost the baby. We where broken but recovered.

I took in again and $ex went from @least 5times a week to once a month. I thought it was as a result of the miscarriage so I ignored him.
                                   
After the baby came it continued. I still ignored. Baby number 3 came still nothing. If I ask its either because he is used to me or because of our financial issue. To pay school fees/rent is war. Until I went through his phone and saw intimate chats with different women. We fought and made up.

He only increased it to 3-4times a month. He acts like he is being forced to touch me. I wear sexy wears, even sleep naked most times, smell nice even to bed. For where. Nothing. I confronted him one more time last week and his answer was he is almost 40 and he is getting old(he is 35 o!).

That do I know what comes out of his body after each session. That I should learn how to cope. Hey! I was weak. I thought child bearing would kill my libido but these days I am more horny than ever. I do sitz bath and use special treatment to keep me fresh and tight down there.

I am fed up and if care is not taken I'll leave. Coupled with our financial issue. I am 28 and we have been married for 5years. We have 3 children now. Please I need your advice. Thanks

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FOR LADIES ONLY? 5 Reasons You Are Yet To Find A Serious Man

You have dressed very well and look gorgeous in your beautiful outfit. You know you would be the focus of all eyes at the party. You expect that the men would want you and the women would want to be you.

You are ready to go out, have a good time, meet some fun guys and maybe even find someone you connect and can build a relationship with in the long run. You get to the party, and of course you are the cynosure of all eyes.
They notice you when you enter and you even get a few glances from some good-looking bachelors…. but then something must be wrong. Because it is the end of the night and you have not been asked to dance yet, no one has approached you to make conversation, and no guy has expressed interest in being with you. You start to wonder where you went wrong.

If this sounds like you, then it can be a pretty frustrating experience. The answer to this riddle could be really simple.
You are unapproachable. You can look as beautiful as a pageant contestant and even more fashionable, but it would be difficult to attract men if you do not look like someone they would like to talk to.

For men, putting themselves out there and expressing their interest in a woman could be a pretty daunting experience and if you do not look like someone who might say yes to their advances, they would most likely steer clear of you. If you are doing the things listed below, this might be why you are not getting the attention you expect.

1. You do not smile: Of course, no one expects you to bare your teeth for hours, but simply having a more jovial countenance would make you seem more open and friendly. Men would gravitate towards you and want to hang out with you.

2. You are too involved with your friends: Nothing is as challenging to a guy as having to approach a girl in the midst of all her giggling girlfriends. He would fear that if you reject him, there would be audiences that would witness the humiliation. If you have an eye on someone, make sure you take a step away from your friends at interval to encourage him to come over.

3. You “look” busy: It is natural that if you are sitting alone somewhere, you might want to “look” busy (perhaps playing with your phone or reading a book) so as not to look to desperate. While this is understandable, if you have to do it, make sure you take away your focus from what you are doing from time to time so men would not automatically a$$ume you are too engrossed to talk.

4. You do not make eye contact: Eye contact is very important in letting people know you are interested. If there is someone that catches your eye, make sure they know it by meeting their eyes from time to time. Hold eye contact, and smile (if you are a bit more daring) so they know they are less likely to be rejected.

5. You have a rigid body language: Sometimes, the way we carry ourselves could give others the impression that they should back off. Sitting/standing too rigidly, acting stiff and being all-round closed off are not the best way to attract the opposite $ex. Try to be more laid-back and relaxed.

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Please HELP! "She said I Wasn't Her Type 3 Years Ago, But Now I Suddenly Became Her Type" ....Should I Accept Her Back?

I met a lady in my neighborhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while.

One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls..

She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?

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Must Read: Ladies See The Shocking Effect Of Postinor 2 (Drug For Prevention of Pregnancy) READ HERE

Postinor 2 is a medication to prevent pregnancy if you shine the sperm into the ovary, whether intentional or not. It can prevent pregnancy 95% in the first 24 hours after intercourse, it is used as a form of emergency contraception (more commonly known as a morning after pill). Postinor-2 is formulated to function in a manner similar to the female hormone progesterone allowing for prevention of pregnancy if taken within a reasonable period of time. Generally, it is recommended that Postinor-2 be taken no later than three days after having unprotected se x.

EFFECTS OF POSTINOR 2

1 ,When taken in the middle of the menstrual cycle, the preparation may inhibit ovulation.

2, The pill can cause changes in the menstrual cycle in the lady. Your next period could start earlier or  later than expected and flow can be lighter or heavier than normal.

3, It can cause nauseating feeling which occurs in approximately 25% of users vomiting

4 ,It can also bring about bleeding disturbances in some cases, 2-3 days following tablet ingestion

5 ,Sometimes it can cause breast tenderness, headache, dizziness, fatigue.

6 ,In the majority of cases the next period starts as expected or somewhat earlier, if the period is more  than 7 days late it is recommended to perform a pregnancy test.

7. In case of prolonged or heavy bleeding, gynaecological examinations is advised.

8 ,If the user has a reported case of asthma, heart failure, hypertension, migraine, epilepsy, renal impairment, diabetes mellitus, hyperlipidaemia, depression, and / or stroke, the preparation may be used exclusively in the above mentioned emergency cases. it is not appropriate for regular use.

It is estimated that Postinor-2 will prevent 85% of expected pregnancies. 95% of expected pregnancies will be prevented if taken within the first 24 hours.

So I employ every guy to always walk around with postinor2 because you never know when you will have a match because you don’t want to receive that “We need to Talk” text after 7 weeks.

What’s is your reaction on this post we love your comment !!!

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6 Sentences You’ll Hear If A Nigerian Girl Likes You

1. “…big head.”

The ultimate term of endearment.

2. “So your girlfriend will come and break my head, abi?”

They are using style to ask if you have a girlfriend.

3. “…all your girls.”

When they like you, they swear other girls like you too.

4. “Go away jor.”

Better stay there.

5. “When are you coming to take me out?”

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THE DANGERS OF DATING A COWORKER

Precisely when two individuals are collected for created periods at the workplace and have comparable side interests, its direct to feel to develop. Obviously, an office inclination can upset true blue cleaned capacity and make load for you at the work environment. Office estimations are dependably a hazardous wager, so on the off chance that you feel that your just risk at love is in the working environment, consider the running with motivations to keep away from  blending business with joy:

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Sweet Love text messages, love quotes and Relationship quotes

Chasing down nostalgic messages or sweet love messages that you can send you relate day and night? You can discover loads of them in this site, I can guarantee you. Check underneath the energizing sweet love messages that are recorded here and in the occasion that you're not in any case fulfill with all these, look down in the relationship

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