4 Sign That’ll Tell You He’s Not Looking For A Serious Relationship

The bad boy tamed by the right girl has long been a cliché in movies and on TV. From Joey from Friends to Barney in How I Met Your Mother, the promiscuous man who prefers commitment-free hook-ups is shown to be perfectly willing to change his philandering ways once he realizes how unfulfilled he is. In reality, there are plenty of men out there who simply don’t want a serious relationship or don’t want one with you. If you’re looking for a serious relationship, it’s important to be able to tell the difference between a relationship with potential, and one that’s unlikely to develop into anything more. Here are four tell-tale phrases that suggest he won’t be changing his ways any time soon.

#1. “I think it’s too soon for you to meet my family” If a guy is serious about you, he’ll want you to meet his family as soon as possible. He might be nervous about the meeting, because he wants it to go well, but he won’t fob you off with excuses any time you suggest seeing them.

#2. “I don’t think you’d like my friends” If it seems that he really doesn’t want you to meet his friends, it suggests that they either don’t know you exist, or that he has given them a very different impression of what kind of relationship you have. Either way, it’s not a good sign for the future of your relationship.

#3. “I’m not looking for anything serious” Perhaps the old cliché of bad boy tamed is to blame, but many women don’t believe what they hear when a man says he’s not looking for a serious relationship. They make the classic mistake of thinking that things will change when he realizes just how much they mean to him, and hanging on in the hope that he will eventually fall head-over-heels in love.

If you met using online dating, it should be clear whether he is after something serious or not. Most men won’t lie about what they are looking for. So if he says “I’m not looking for anything serious” he means just that. Take it as a clear sign and don’t waste any more time with him.

#4. “Let’s just be spontaneous” While being spontaneous can be very exciting and romantic, it’s not a good sign if he doesn’t ever want to make solid plans with you. If he’s developing serious feelings for you, he’ll want to make as many plans as possible so he always knows when he’ll be seeing you next. If he’s seeing a few other girls, he might be waiting to see what other offers he gets before committing to anything. This ‘spontaneity’ could also be another way of saying ‘let’s just hook up whenever I feel like it.

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5 Solid Facts you Should Know About Love and Relationship

Falling in love with that special someone often comes with much excitement that you tend to feel so willing to give your best to the person you love. For instance I had in a previous post outlined some rather 'crazy' things I do as a person when I'm in love. You may want to read them by clicking here. 

On the flip side of it, the euphoria that comes with every new relationship has a huge tendency of sliding down with time especially if the parties in the relationship entered into such without knowledge of what it takes to love or should I say to truly love someone. 

So here are five solid facts you should know about falling in love and relationship in general. 

FIVE FACTS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS 

1. You can never get all you desire in ONE man or woman, but you can make them become or look like what you desire. 

2. If beauty and looks is your yardstick used in finding who to marry, then you a most likely to fail and would likely end up with the wrong person. 

3. I' trust you' is a better compliment than 'I love you' because you will

always truly love that someone whom you trust but may not trust someone who you love. 

4. Marriage is a covenant between two imperfect People who have chosen to love each other perfectly. 

5. Understanding, tolerance, patience, trust, ability to easily forgive and forget when wronged by your spouse are virtues that must never lack in any marriage/relationship that would last the test of time.

You have seen my list and I hope to update it with time. Do you have something you feel I should add? Any contrary opinion? Please drop your comments below. 

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Some Crazy Things I Do When In Love. Say Yours

Love is one crazy feeling that gets a strong grip on humans and make them act like babies sometimes. Most times when you are truly in love you tend to do things you would normally not do. 

For me as a guy, love breaks many of my principles and I don't know if that is a good one anyway. I'll give you a list of things,  actually crazy things, people do when in love so you can tell us which of them you do the most.  Wait, did I mention that I will be using myself as a case study? Now you know! 

1. When I'm in love I do everything for the lady because I will not want to see her worried.

2. When I'm in love saying NO to the lady becomes a problem. I have a habit of saying no to some requests from people without feeling any remorse but when it has to do with a woman I love, hmmmm, I do require some time to think about it before eventually saying no.

3. I call or text at late hours. I'm not too sure about why I do this but perhaps to register my image in her dreams. Isn't that crazy?

4. When I'm in love I change to a jealous guy. But if I notice she wants to explore my jealousy as a tool for controlling me I just suddenly stop caring and by then she wouldn't need a prophet to tell her she is gone! Wicked?

5. When I'm in love I go on my knees every night to pray for the lady. Is this crazy? It may seem so but I enjoy doing it.

6. When I'm in love the lady automatically becomes an obsession. Wait, what I mean is her thought flies in every 10 seconds. Crazy right?

7. When I'm in love I become unnecessarily worried over the affairs of the lady. Most times I wonder why her affairs should be my concern when I've not finished with my own worries. Love is about sacrifice right?

8. When I'm in love everything about the lady turns me on starting from her name, her voice, her pictures, etc. Lol.

9. Love has the ability to heal me when I'm down. You may think I'm joking but I was having head ache one day and feeling depressed but everything flied the moment a call entered my phone. Lol.

10. I strive to protect everyone I love. 

In conclusion, love is universal, love is a beautiful thing. Who else is like me? 

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What A Nigerian Man Wants In Bed [Please don't read this if you're below the age of 20]

I'm About To Show You The Exact Thing Men Want In Bed.. Grab a glass of chilled juice and Enjoy this Article!

1. Be vocal

I'm not saying you should fake po.rn star-moans, but honestly, men want to know when you're enjoying yourself. That doesn't necessarily mean you need to talk dirty. Commands—like 'f--- me harder'—can make us freeze up! 

 Telling us when you like something—'I love it when you f--- me hard'—is far better." 

You might also add the popular "oohs", "ehhhs", "ahhhs" you may be surprised by how he will
respond to them—and what his renewed excitement will do to you. 

2. Do it with the lights on

I guess you may be worried about what your husband thinks of your bo.obs, or other parts of your body. You're worried that at some point, he might stop being attracted to you because of the way you look. But men do not often notice those flaws you perceived. They only become aware of them if you're preoccupied with them or If you try to cover up. Seriously, we really want to see you move with no clothes on. We're more interested in how happy we can make you in bed, and that's what we're focused on, and not on how much you may have changed. So allow him see all of you.

3. Focus on his Sensitive Spots

Pay special attention to the tip of his pe.nis. Please handle with care oh.. but know that a flick of the tongue there and other sensitive parts will leave your husband speechless!

4. Be Creative.. Try something different

Most men fantasize about having se.x in different places. You can simply surprise him on the couch while the kids are sleeping —just make sure you turn on the TV, so the kids wont hear your moans. *lol. :-)

5. Touch yourself

Some people might not like this, but hear me out. Watching a confident woman fully connect to her sexuality is a huge turn-on for us, and it helps us get a better understanding of exactly how you like to be touched. 

6. Your Level Of Interest In Se.x 

Showing your man that you want intimate se.x with him is very simple. All you need to do is touch him more than you normally do, especially in his more intimate and sensitive places. Making prolonged eye contact with him as well as letting him catch you looking at his lips, bum and crotch. But, by far the easiest way is vocalizing it. 

7. Let him Dominate you

Men want to have the power to switch up patterns and take total control, have him bind your hands together, and let him take it from there. I think you won't regret it.

8. Be Wild

Being really wild in the bedroom is certainly a turn on for some guys, 

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Best Collections Of Happy New Month Messages

As we are about to say goodbye to the month of  November 2016 and welcome a brand new month, December 2016, send special happy new month messages/SMS/Text and greetings to your friends, relatives and loved ones. Here are great collections of New Month Greetings, New Month Wishes, New Month Quotes, New Month Poems, New Month SMS, New Month Text and lots more you can send to friends and family. Choose from these collections of New Month Messages to send good wishes to your near and dear ones.

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Hey Buddies

Hey Buddies
this is the opening day of the new month
And it preserve be a new create of your life as well.
Take a lengthy breathing and begin
Going advance towards your purpose.
Best of good fortune
Happy New Month!

New Month Text Wishes

The very last month has moved
Allow the lifeless past hide its hold lifeless
The New Month has in use
Custody of the timepiece of time
Every frozen rain the jobs
And
Promise of the next future
30 Days!
Happy New month

A fresh and joyful month
Is in relation to come,
May God sanctify you?
With cheerfulness
And delight which
You miss in the
Previous month.
Happy New Month.

GET NEW MONTH GIFT FOR YOUR NEAR & DEAR ONES

present have been countless period in preceding month
when I distressed you
concerned you
taunt to you
motivated you
however
now I just required to inform you
I arrangement to carry on it within this month as fine.
Happy New Month

With let’s twist a fresh sheet
with the perfume of fresh rainwater.
Let’s overlook earlier period errors
making punishment for this month.
Transfer you these good wishes
to carry you trust and joyfulness
Happy New month!

New days and new months are the importance of transform.
They explain that being not stopped for everything.
So stay touching and stay cheery.
Happy New Month

Open ur Mind 2 Possibilities
You’ll be amazed by what you are capable of achieving
We are powerful beyond measure.
May the Almighty God balance d equation 4 U dis new Month.
Hapi New Month

I ask 4 God’s BRAIN 2 DRAIN away d
RAIN of PAIN in your life &
fall RAIN of GAIN on u so dt what u OBTAIN &
ORDAIN 2 be will not turn into VAIN.
Hv a 1derful December …

Just Like the Eagle,
You’ll fly Like Gold,
You will be Valued Like the Sun,
You shall shine bright Like the river,
You shall flow unlimited Like the Palm Tree,
You shall Flourish and like Money, You shall be Useful
Happy New Month …

Our God is a mighty God
He is the God of each year
God over weeks and God over year
This May, He will make everything work for you
He will surprise you and give you the best of Happiness
Happy New …

Silence isn’t ignoring sometimes it shout and
@ tyme it whispers if u listen
u’ll d voice of my silence saying
how’re u? & api new month,

May u be highly favoured dis month …
This is start of month,
and i wish may you be happy always the upcoming time.
Happy New Month…

May this month be a good new bearer for you,
May all your problems be solved.
Happy New Month…

May your dreams come true this month,
May all your wishes be fulfilled.
Happy New Month

I love to talk to you at this moment,
before the start of new month. Now i am sure,
my month will be very good. You are always lucky to me.
Happy New Month…

May all of your previous failures
turn into success this month.
Happy New Month…

Wishing you fabulous new month,
a month with new experiences waiting for you.
Happy New Month…

May each day of coming month bring
many reasons of celebrations for you.
Happy new month

May your new month be filled
with
Happiness
Love
Good Will
and
All kinds of success.
Happy New Month!

Hope this month
will bring
a lot of change
in your life
This change will be as
good as you are.
Enjoy your new month
with all of your friends
and your loved ones.
Happy New Month!

Try to make your new month
as bright as moon
as gay as butterflies
as colorful as rainbow
as lovely as flowers
as happy as birds.
So enjoy your new month
at full extent.;)
happy New Month!

Whenever new month comes, my hands raise for the best time of your life ever. I wish you always remain happy and never see any trouble and worries in future. Wish you a happy and pleasant new month.
Happy New Month

New month always comes with new challenges and purposes for us, it is a voice of my heart that you defeat all challenges and be successful not only in this month but all the years of life.
Happy New Month

When there comes new moments of new month, my heart wishes that your face always keep on smiles and laughter throughout month and you never see any sadness.
Wish you a Happy New Month

Patience is the key to all doors of success,
Patience teaches us the art of hard work,
We should do this practice, so we can find the
real concept of success and happiness.
Happy New Month.

May new month becomes one of the most
blessed and happy months for you
In this beautiful month,
May its shining lights up every dark corner of our heart,
May our all prejudices against each other disappears,
May God give us the strength to follow His orders,
May peace transcend the earth.

Bless You A Very Happy New Month.
The New Month of happiness has arrived,
Get ready to gather all the treasure of blessings,
May we Praise Almighty God from dawn to dusk,
Help others by giving them smiles and happiness,
So everyone can enjoy the celebration of spring,
Wish You a Nice Month Ahead.

In busy life,
We dont have enough time to enjoy and spend time with each other.
At the start of this month, I wish and hope to spend some time with you.
Share all the good memories of our love affection.
Happy Lovely New Month.

“Matt and I have set a date.
Matt and I will tie the knot
New Months Day in the town of Swampscott, Massachusetts.
Reserve your hotel rooms now.
I will be having a gay marriage.”
Ben Affleck

“A New Month’s resolution is something
that goes in one month and out the other.”
Anonymous

“I made no resolutions for the New Month.
The habit of making plans,
of criticizing, sanctioning and molding my life,
is too much of a daily event for me.”
Anais Nin

“Drop the last month into the silent limbo of the past.
Let it go, for it was imperfect,
and thank God that it can go.”
Brooks Atkinson

“For last month’s words belong to last month’s
language and next month’s words await another voice.”
T.S. Eliot

“The only way to spend New Month’s Eve
is either quietly with friends or in a brothel.
Otherwise when the evening ends and people pair off,
someone is bound to be left in tears.”
W.H. Auden

“Cheers to a new month and another chance
for us to get it right.”
Oprah Winfrey

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